They tend to be rigid and inflexible in their thinking and unwilling to see what's really happening until it's too late.

他们趋向于固执己见，不愿面对现实直到一切都已太迟。

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Now look in the face of someone who is very protective and unwilling to be hurt, hat do you see?

现在看看那些非常设防的、不愿受伤的人们的脸庞，你能看到什么？

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Could it be that Mr Kim is unwilling to see the lay-offs that would result from such spontaneous restructuring?

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In both cases, a narcissist may be aware of how others see them, but we would expect the greatest awareness to come from those unwilling to change.

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But many customers would still be worse off, Yurukoglu told me, because they would no longer see channels they watch occasionally but were unwilling to pay a lot for.

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